Bingham Blues

Just another day in the life of Stephie...DRAMA!


Because i am the way that i am, i am always looking for the best in people, always giving people the benefit of the doubt.  I think there is good in people, but time in time again i am proven wrong.  


Lately i have been having lots of trouble with my fiances family.  I believe they are all getting together and talkin crap... then they write emails and say things to our faces that i think is outta line.  One of Kade's brothers wrote us an email telling us that according to the rest of the family we are only getting married to allow us to get into each others pants.  They also keep telling us to postpone the wedding and date longer because they don't think we know each other very well.  That is their opinion and they can have it, but I feel like I know Kade really well, I mean I have known him for years.  They have also said he can't marry me because no one in the family knows me very well. Yes, the family is important, but if they really love Kade, they will learn to love me as well because i am important to him.


Sorry, but my dad told me not to wait, and his opinion is valued high in my eyes, dating for 7 months or longer can only get you into trouble.  When you know, why wait?  
 I know it is hard, but most people tell me its worth it.  I know i love Kade, i know marrying him is the right thing for me to do.


So just today Kade's sister-in-law wrote me an email  telling me i should take my relationship with Kade slow or it will end up like my other bad relationships.  WOO... She is convinced i am in love with the idea of being married and not really in love with Kade.  K well i love Kade, our relationship now is wonderful, we have never fought, we have never had any issues with anything except his family.   I know that because i love someone and live with them wont make everything perfect.  


When we get married I know we will fight, we will have hard times, but if we continue to live the way the lord wants us to everything will be okay.  Just because we have hard times doesn't mean we sacrifice all the good times because of them.


"you can pick your friends, you can pick your nose, but you cant pick your relatives." 


They got to chose their spouse and they got to chose how long to date, now its our life, and our path to chose what way to go.  I would love to have thier support but i can also live without it.  I know i am following Gods plan, so they need to worry about themselves and their choices and stay the heck outta my hair. :D just sayin. 

I really need to get more pictures of the two of us.

 I love Kade and i am sticking to my guns!  I know God is pleased on how I'm living my life, and it is his business and mine who I marry.  


Wow feels good to get all that off my chest.